Multiple studies show that giving up control actually leads to more happiness. Surrendering control of people, places, and things, leads to less stress and more energy. Trying to maintain control over everything and everyone is exhausting. Letting go of that control is a relief, mentally physically and spiritually. Controlling people leads to disappointment, controlling places leads to failure and controlling things leads to ultimately feeling more powerless.
Many mistakenly perceive surrender or giving up control as a sign of weakness. Indeed for many, holding onto control for so many years was one of the only things that made them feel strong. It takes a remarkable amount of courage to surrender control.
Surrendering control essentially means learning to embrace uncertainty. Each day we are met with millions of probabilities, all of which are uncertain. It’s hard for us to predict what is going to happen in a day, week, month, year, or lifetime. Surrendering control is a way to stop and smell the roses rather than try to avoid the thorns. Thorns happen, but they don’t make the rose any less beautiful or smell any less sweet.
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